There's the rules written in Kouran and they're unique. This is an islamic rule and in Turkey it's the same, but as you know every muslim is free to apply the laws as he likes and is responsible of himself. As long as he believes in Allah, that the İslam is the last religion, the prophets and ahiret, he is considered a muslim.
I know muslim turkish girls who marry christian men. The point is in Turkey, because we are not an islamic republic, we don't judge or punish people because they don't apply islamic rules.

Ok, you mean you apply Islam rules as it written in Kur'an in your life but you dont use them in laws.
And it is people's choices to follow them or not .
Yes ?

ALLAH will ask everyone for himself,and wont ask everyone for the other.
People are grown up know the right from the wrong and its their own choices .
I agree for that.

In marriage we have 2 seperates laws,one for Muslims and other for Christians.
And i guess it cannt be both way.
But i dont know for sure,so that i will check it and feed it back to you.

Its Haram by Islam of course,but i dont know about the law.

To get back on the topic...

Technically you can't marry a muslim man unless you're also muslim, christian or jewish but by regular people in Turkey I don't think it's being put to practice much.

And of course his family can't force you to change you're religion. It is blasphemic to say the shadada (what you say in order to become muslim) if you don't mean it in your heart.

If you're practicing buddhism and he's practicing islam it's going to be really hard.

First of all I really get sick of this kindoff thing when people say "if he or his family are so religous you must convert"! Well if he was so damn religous he wouldn't be getting in a relationship with a buddhist or athiest, jew or christian in the first place right?

My advice to you is not take anyone from heres advice, only you can know your boyfriend and his family so if your in love or starting to fall in love you need to investigate his family and him yourself before its to late and your heart gets broken. Like someone said earlier if you believe in your religion you would be a fool to even consider converting... it sickens me that just because you love a muslim you have to be one! Religion is not a pair of socks so don't pretend you can take off and on whenever its befitting to be religous.

I think we are also free to convert to a religion just because we want to marry someone. It's a decision about yourself, and if you want to pretend that you're a muslim or a christian, you should do it.