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Buddhist marry Muslim
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:12 am |
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Quoting mltm:
Yes, it's said that there's not any "ayet" that clearly bans the woman to marry non muslim man, but there're ayets about man marrying woman, and it's said that on such an important matter if a woman was allowed to marry a non muslim man, there should have been an ayet about it. And in some ayets there're some points that we can come to this conclusion. This page explains better(again in turkish):http://www.geocities.com/IslamPencereleri/gayrimuslimevlilik.htm
Hadiths are not Kouran laws ofcourse, but isn't it weird that we can come to a conclusion that a muslim woman can marry a non muslim man whereas there's not any ayet about it while there's a detailed ayet about man marrying non muslim woman. |
Check over on 2/221 that verse addresses both women and men
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:14 am |
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Quoting catwoman:
mltm, please spare more of these explanations, I gathered more then enough that in islam women are inferior to men, because koran said so!!! |
I think the problem with you is you always challenge with yourself, it should be a very tiring thing. You don't accept your own nature, and your own nature makes you frustrated. Being weaker at some points to men doesn't make me feel inferior to them, I am at peace with my own nature.
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:14 am |
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Quoting mltm: Quoting armegon:
Kur'an is a book on justice, if men can do something, also women can do it.. |
I think the justice is not the same in Kur'an as we have created it in our society. The duties of woman and man are not always same in the book. While a woman needs the permission of a father or an uncle etc to marry the man that she wishes, a man doesn't need a permission. |
You are right here
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:16 am |
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Quoting mltm: I think the justice is not the same in Kur'an as we have created it in our society. The duties of woman and man are not always same in the book. While a woman needs the permission of a father or an uncle etc to marry the man that she wishes, a man doesn't need a permission. |
Yes, exactly! DaMoonGirl - read this, you won't get such a clear explanation of this religion anywhere else - and decide whether you really want to live like this! (My advice is run away).
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:21 am |
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Quoting mltm: I think the problem with you is you always challenge with yourself, it should be a very tiring thing. You don't accept your own nature, and your own nature makes you frustrated. Being weaker at some points to men doesn't make me feel inferior to them, I am at peace with my own nature.
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Hehehehe, this made me laugh like hell  . Thanks for your psychoanalysis, worthy of a sect leader. I'm really happy for you that you accepted your weak, naive, unable to survive without a man nature. I'm very well, thanks for caring! 
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:21 am |
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That's not completely true because the Qur'an says that you should respect and obey your parents so a man shouldn't marry someone that his parents oppose to.
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:25 am |
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Quoting azade: That's not completely true because the Qur'an says that you should respect and obey your parents so a man shouldn't marry someone that his parents oppose to. |
Then man who marry without permission of his parents, doing something wrong, so man should also take permission
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:28 am |
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Quoting armegon: Quoting azade: That's not completely true because the Qur'an says that you should respect and obey your parents so a man shouldn't marry someone that his parents oppose to. |
Then man who marry without permission of his parents, doing something wrong, so man should also take permission |
Well yes. Who would want to marry someone that their parents hate anyway? Ok maybe in our time people do that because of the disintegration of family values but I can't imagine it being a nice situation for anyone.
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:33 am |
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Quoting azade: That's not completely true because the Qur'an says that you should respect and obey your parents so a man shouldn't marry someone that his parents oppose to. |
This is kind of funny, you can't even agree on these things among yourself... .
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04 May 2007 Fri 01:43 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting azade: That's not completely true because the Qur'an says that you should respect and obey your parents so a man shouldn't marry someone that his parents oppose to. |
This is kind of funny, you can't even agree on these things among yourself... . |
Care to elaborate?
I don't know what some muslims do...all religious are being disintegrated, I'm talking about what actual islam, not peoples interpretations.
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04 May 2007 Fri 02:07 am |
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Damoon,
You mention that you havent really discuss this "religion" thing with your boyfriend. Do you you think its wiser and better if you do so that you know what he really thinks about this subject. You will just make yourself sick of thinking too much. For all you know he might not want you to convert then you're stressing yourself for nothing. If he does then its time for you to really weigh the relationship especially your feelings for him. If you dont mind converting then no problem but then i presume you value your religion too. If he wants you to convert and you don't want to, then i think its time to move on. Spare yourself and the guy more heartaches .
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