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Buddhist marry Muslim
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03 May 2007 Thu 11:25 pm |
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your "wise" words may do harm.
there are far more powerful thıngs ın thıs world than myself but ı see my ınexpertıse ın ıslam culture has nothıng to do wıth extendıng love to a person of a dıfferent faıth ıt could be the reason to be drawn to one another somethıng ın theır style that ıs appealıng ıs dırectly ın proportıon to theır faıth and belıefs and culture
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03 May 2007 Thu 11:50 pm |
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Quoting Roxy: Hello everyone,
I am muslim and my husband is catholic..and I havent changed my religion or my husband didn't change his religion..so there are no rules or laws that muslim person can or can not marry someone from a different religion.It is all up to you basically.. |
You cannot say that there're no laws, if we're talking about the laws in the Kuran, yes, there's such a law that a muslim girl is only allowed to marry a muslim man, but it's up to you to respect this rule or not.
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03 May 2007 Thu 11:58 pm |
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Yes exactly mltm!
Did nobody read what I wrote earlier?? -caugh- post 42 -caugh- Please refer from giving false advice arkadaşlar.
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04 May 2007 Fri 12:03 am |
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Quoting mltm:
You cannot say that there're no laws, if we're talking about the laws in the Kuran, yes, there's such a law that a muslim girl is only allowed to marry a muslim man, but it's up to you to respect this rule or not. |
As far as i know, there is not a verse like that mltm, i think its source is hadiths. If you know there is a verse in Kur'an like this, can you please share it to us?
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04 May 2007 Fri 12:06 am |
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Quoting armegon: Quoting mltm:
You cannot say that there're no laws, if we're talking about the laws in the Kuran, yes, there's such a law that a muslim girl is only allowed to marry a muslim man, but it's up to you to respect this rule or not. |
As far as i know, there is not a verse like that mltm, i think its source is hadiths. If you know there is a verse in Kur'an like this, can you please share it to us? |
I'll try to find out. Hang on.
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04 May 2007 Fri 12:22 am |
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Look, I'm not a muslim that really practises the religion, but I have muslim friends,a friend whose father is imam, and other good practising muslim friends, and I referred to them and they all told me that a muslim woman is not allowed to marry a muslim man, and even if it's more accepted for a muslim man to marry a monotheist woman, a muslim woman is strongly preferred. Here it's explained (in turkish)http://www.hayrettinkaraman.net/sc/00100.htm
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04 May 2007 Fri 12:22 am |
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Are there any similar rules in the Koran, mltm, such as "A muslim girl is not allowed to go to France, a non-Muslim country, to learn French, not-Arabic"? 
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04 May 2007 Fri 12:24 am |
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Quoting panta rei: Are there any similar rules in the Koran, mltm, such as "A muslim girl is not allowed to go to France, a non-Muslim country, to learn French, not-Arabic"? |
France is not a non-muslim country, here there're 5 million muslims, and also hundred thousands of jews besides catholics.
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04 May 2007 Fri 12:26 am |
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Quoting mltm: Look, I'm not a muslim that really practises the religion, but I have muslim friends,a friend whose father is imam, and other good practising muslim friends, and I referred to them and they all told me that a muslim woman is not allowed to marry a muslim man, and even if it's more accepted for a muslim man to marry a monotheist woman, a muslim woman is strongly preferred. |
That's a very nice, tolerant, equal, loving "law"... makes me wonder who came up with it...  
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04 May 2007 Fri 12:33 am |
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Quoting mltm: Look, I'm not a muslim that really practises the religion, but I have muslim friends,a friend whose father is imam, and other good practising muslim friends, and I referred to them and they all told me that a muslim woman is not allowed to marry a muslim man, and even if it's more accepted for a muslim man to marry a monotheist woman, a muslim woman is strongly preferred. Here it's explained (in turkish)http://www.hayrettinkaraman.net/sc/00100.htm
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But its source is hadiths not the Kur'an i think, Kur'an is a book on justice, if men can do something, also women can do it...Others are humans interpretation...Allah does not say something like that, do you think Allah forgot something in Kur'an whereas Allah says Kur'an is fully detailed. And that hadiths contradict with Kur'an, so we must believe in Allah not Hayrettin Karaman...
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04 May 2007 Fri 12:34 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting mltm: Look, I'm not a muslim that really practises the religion, but I have muslim friends,a friend whose father is imam, and other good practising muslim friends, and I referred to them and they all told me that a muslim woman is not allowed to marry a muslim man, and even if it's more accepted for a muslim man to marry a monotheist woman, a muslim woman is strongly preferred. |
That's a very nice, tolerant, equal, loving "law"... makes me wonder who came up with it... |
The reason of this is I think and probably is because woman and man nature are different in İslam (maybe also in other religions). The chief of the family is man in İslam and the woman nature is weaker, but this does not mean that she's inferior (but some men sees women inferior, it's true). The man is dominant and the children are raised according to the man's religion (because he has a dominant nature). Anyway, a muslim woman is preferred because two muslim parents is better than one muslim parent, and if all muslim men marry with nonmuslims, and if the muslim women are not allowed to marry non muslim then how can she marry some one?
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