But some women are.

In my opinion jealousy is a disease, a very destructive and hurtful feeling. It goes very deep in asking if we are good enough for this life. Jealousy pollutes not only love affairs but other human relations as well. It is not something that should be encouraged or something one should be proud of or flattered from. In the opposite we should fight it every time we see tracks of it in ourselves or people we care about.

The old piece of advice "Treat people like you like to be treated" works very well as a medicine for jealousy also.

Yes.

In Turkish the qualifier comes before the qualified. This is pretty much a rule which you can trust from early steps of learning until an anvanced level.

Another thing to remember here which learners ofter err in is the place of the indefinite article. In your examples it comes to the middle: kırmızı bir araba, eski bir ev.

That is good then and you must be right. But the popping up of words like adam, kadın and the so-called neutral insan show that this profession in the old days used to be ear-marked for men. Times change and language slowly follows this change.

Actually one of the best Turkish innovations is the profession derivator -CI which is gender neutral and very handy. You have successfully exported it to Arabic also.

Understood. But that is not the problem. The problem is

that she is called bilim adamı.

bilim adamı and hayat kadını. What a pity.

bilim insanı seems like a poor compromise. Maybe araştırmacı would be a truly gender neutral naming.

These nouns do not purely reflect sexism. adam and its equivalents are also an unmarked category in (all?) languages. kadın can never be neutral what comes to sex.

In the end of the 19th century when they opened universities for ladies in Finland the female applicants first had to apply to be "set free" from their gender. Really  -  this word was used.

Turkish lacks grammatical gender. Just like my native language. But there are differences also. Our given names are strictly divided into male and female names while in Turkish unisex names are many and widely used. It is also still common in Finnish that a name of a profession carries an implication of its holders sex, i.e. ends with the equivalent of "man" or "woman" etc. I recently read there are more than 600 such titles and the number is increasing even though language planners object this type of nouns.

Makes me wonder. I cannot think of many Turkish professional names which follow gender. Actually I can think of one, işadamı. Are there more?

We do things -DİKTEN SONRA but -MEDEN ÖNCE. There is an important lesson in this. -DIK participle denotes an action that has actually happened while -MA infinitive expresses an envisaged or theoretical action which has not  - in this case yet  - taken place. It makes sense when you think of it.

Again İsmail YK. Sana ne. Rats I like this boy.

An old story I know and not without a drop of hypocricy either. But there is a certain power in this replica that convinces me it is not another desperate try from a loser to get his lost love back but a commentary of a strong person.

"İnan pişman değilim bakma yüzüme."