Thanks I'll remember it for next time, as this post was quite old and the letter already sent away a week ago

Still thanks

Heyyy dont let the courage go down to ur shoes (the english version of a dutch proverb ). Just work on it. U can never expect to speak fluently within one year if you dont take professional classes and are not in a turkish speaking world, so i think u already do a great job so far!

Very succesfull Thank you! If there's anythin u ever need in return..

I also recommend Western Union. It's so easy. You give your bankaccount number, the amount of money, the transaction costs (€17,- for about €125,- euros) and then you get a printed paper with a number. The one you sent it to must take that number and his Identification Card or Passport to his bank, show it and he can take the money. You don't even need his bankaccoudn number, only his first and last name and his city of residence will do!!

I read it about the jealousy as well I think giving someone an evil eye as a present is actually somethin really friendly and caring!! Im not sure if do believe in such powers, but for example, i always take a catholic cross with me. I am nto religious at all myself, but the catholic friend who gave it to me, is. So the power and feeling of safety i find in it, is based on friendship. I think thats something really beautiful./

I still have the hope that kadir will buy me a beautiful nazar one day

May i add that the english word for 'evil eye' only is a name to describe the Turkish nazar, not because it's a tradition/culture thing of England itself The same goes for France probably. Still thanks for all the information, tht's how we learn

Ohh mine is wrong.. it should be like this according to my bf:

Bu akşam beni görmeyi istiyor musun, bebeğim? Seni özlüyorum ve seni çok seviyorum.

I met my man through internet, which made us decide we felt so strong for eachother, that we wanted to see eachother. Now we met 3 times and next year i will move there. If our relationship continues, then we will definitely get married.

I strongly disagree that you cannot love or have real friendship over internet. Indeed, you miss the loving hands on your shoulders. And im definitely an expert about this. Two years i loved a man, 3 times i got chance to touch him. But in two years, we spoke, spoke and spoke.. to be honest i think we are more SÖZLÜ than most people in a relationship can say. We've been through hard, long distance times. Cold nights alone, visa rejections, my parents who wouldnt let their young blonde daughter go on her own there, took both of us lots of effort. Our love only grew stronger.

Yes we are different. And if you are in a relationship, but you are not different.. then why stay in that relationship at all..

But i agree on the warnings of all those cyber/holiday relationships. You take a big risk and you must definiotely be sure.. not only before making such a big step as a marriage, but in general too. Make sure it is worth to put your heart and effort in. If so, it will be the best you can get Sweetness is sweeter if you know how the bitterness tastes.