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Thread: Missing persons at tc...

1501.       vineyards
1954 posts
 02 Oct 2007 Tue 08:59 am

Just joking.



Thread: Missing persons at tc...

1502.       vineyards
1954 posts
 02 Oct 2007 Tue 04:42 am

Obviously, he loves his wife but he is also a bit worried about the cultural distance there is between the two of them. While the most logical deduction here should not be eating the rabbit, it is worthwile both as a joke and as a telltale sign of his fear of the unpredictable aspects of his wife's sociocultural background. He therefore prefers to be on the safe side and warns her beforehand.

On the other hand, we might also be suspicious of a burning desire in his subconscious to eat that rabbit. Rabbit symbolizes some sort of a bounty a winnable asset. It might have gone through his own mind beforehand, maybe in childhood.

The rabbit and wife duality could also be symbolizing a mental process. Accrdingly, the rabbit might be symbolizing the freedom he enjoyed before his marriage, his younger days which he is afraid of parting now, as a result of this abrupt radical change in his life. That his wife could eat the rabbit might actually be associated with his fear about her taking over the rest of his life. The choice of rabbit as the symbol of as something that is in jeopardy might either indicate a deep rooted homosexuality or a sever lack of compassion in childhood. Children who crave for affection in childhood are afraid of losing their belongings. They never discard objects belonging to them even if they have become completey unuseful through extensive use. They may also develop obsessive feelings towards their family members or friends. In many situations a split personality might also develop. I would like to draw your attention to the similarity between a rabbit and a bridal gown. Chances are that his other personality might be planning to harm his wife and as tpyically happens in these situations, it attempts to put the blame of that offense on another person. She therefore becomes both the victim and the murderer in his thoughts.



Thread: Missing persons at tc...

1503.       vineyards
1954 posts
 02 Oct 2007 Tue 03:33 am

Quoting femme_fatal:

Quoting KeithL:


yes...its a pity turkish women don't like foreign men....


why dont hey like foreign men? are the foreigners less attractive?




Many women I know prefer males with a slightly dark complexion. They tend to like males with strong personalities. In other words, they run after leaders. They both run into problems with those macho characters and yet still like it that way for reasons beyond my understanding.

While not strictly a rule, a typical European male will probably be too polite to leave any kind of impression on our women who are used to males of another sort. After all, it is not very surprizing that part of the male image in the minds of the females is shaped in the childhood by observing their fathers who are very different in manners, reactions and traits from their European counterparts.

There are absolutely quite a lot of people both males and females who have a different taste in this regard. Actually I have heard of all kinds of women attracted to all kinds of men in this society though in much smaller percentages.

Women getting married to or living with foreigners go through a brief cultural shock. A friend of ours got married with a German guy and they began living in a small German town in a single house. When showing her the house where they would live together, the girl notices, her new husband makes all sorts of weird warnings about how to behave in the house and treat their neighbors. Most notably, he tells her after explaining that their neighbors feed rabbits, not to ever catch and eat those rabbits even if they come near her. This might be seen as a result of a deep rooted xenophobia but I think the intercultural marriage shock. also plays a role in this. The guy obviously likes his new wife but he doesn't know how to deal with her.



Thread: I hate a belly dance

1504.       vineyards
1954 posts
 01 Oct 2007 Mon 09:42 pm

A truly nice gal. She turned me upside down. I've lost faith in everything. So be it, I give up on all of my iron clad values and thoughts and take up hers.



Thread: I hate a belly dance

1505.       vineyards
1954 posts
 01 Oct 2007 Mon 09:37 pm

Sorry, this is going quite nicely but I have to leave now. Catch you later.

I like helloumi cheese at breakfast. Let me eat some before you devour me.



Thread: I hate a belly dance

1506.       vineyards
1954 posts
 01 Oct 2007 Mon 09:32 pm

Elisabeth didn't know you were a part of the gang. Seems I will have to go through an Elisa test if I ever survive your breakfast pleasure.



Thread: I hate a belly dance

1507.       vineyards
1954 posts
 01 Oct 2007 Mon 09:30 pm

Oh really, what part of mine will you start with? If you ask me, you deserve my ass.



Thread: I hate a belly dance

1508.       vineyards
1954 posts
 01 Oct 2007 Mon 09:22 pm

Thanks judge I know you won't budge no matter what I say. So, will you hang me tomorrow?

By the way with all due respect; we are not a western country why do you expect us to be 100% compatible with you. Sorry, I wouldn't want to be a part of your global village plans and I don't have to live up to your expectations.

You had difficulty understanding the legal reasons but now you are not ashamed of presenting yourself as the angel of democracy.



Thread: I hate a belly dance

1509.       vineyards
1954 posts
 01 Oct 2007 Mon 09:16 pm

Nice to see you all the members of the Chewing Gum Gang together.

Wearing hijab? Tell me a better way to go incognito when she is around?

I have no fantasies about getting married with anyone. I am already married.



Thread: I hate a belly dance

1510.       vineyards
1954 posts
 01 Oct 2007 Mon 09:05 pm

Quoting Trudy:

Quoting vineyards:

I am afraid you will have to face some legal consequences that will :

" (3) İçerik veya yer sağlayıcısının yurt dışında bulunması halinde veya içerik veya yer sağlayıcısı yurt içinde bulunsa dahi, içeriği birinci fıkranın (a) bendinin (1), (2) ve (3) numaralı alt bentlerinde yazılı suçları oluşturan yayınlarla ilgili olarak erişimin engellenmesi kararı, doğrudan Başkanlık tarafından verilir. Bu karar, erişim sağlayıcısına bildirilerek gereğinin derhal yerine getirilmesi istenir "

...force you to function responsibly as a public forum.



Threatening? Blackmailing?

I'm not a law expert, but do you really think a Turkish law text (translation would be nice) is applicable for a website based in the US? I guess not.




Trudy, threatening? Blackmailing? Don't say you are not a law expert because it all shows. Inviting someone or some entity to act in line with the applying laws governing the freedoms concerning religious beliefs, ethnicities and individual freedoms is not blackmailing; it is a legal duty. When you are complaining of a violation and if your warnings are not heeded (even that is not necessary) you can prosecute that party. Did you really think just a little bit before posting that message?

As for whether websites published abroad are immune to the decisions of local courts. It depends on the kind of crime and international treaties. Nevertheless, persons who are involved in such offenses are punishable on entering this country and their websites can be blocked for Turkish users.

Is this punishment ridiculous? Well we will have to get by with what we have.

The US sites run disclaimers and believe me there are many people who are waiting for an opportunity to sue some people there.

When you run a political site, you must do something to stop a wacko from openly cursing religions, societies and values of people. The best thing that can be done to do that is moderation. If your understanding of moderation is casually deleting some messages or blocking some threads once in every two weeks or so, that is inadequate moderation and you are not able to control what you meant to function as a public platform.

Would you welcome KKK members to start building sites and advocate racism? Would you tolerate a site meant for crusaders to voice their hatred of Islam. Well this site has nothing to do with anyone of the stated purpose but it is beginning to be that way.



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