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What Pam Coo's case means to you Turkish serious friends??
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:22 pm |
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I don't get it?! what is the point in this thread??
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:32 pm |
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Could you please not do this to me? you think this is fun, to discuss my biggest and worst problem? This was a final stop for me.. an embarassing thing to ask for but still i had no choice, to try to get help from nice ppl. And now you start to pick on me - why? Did i do something to you guys? I have not been rude or bad in anyway. So my question to you is - what kind of live do you live? What kind of ppl picks on others when they are already layin down??
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:35 pm |
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Quoting xkirstyx: I don't get it?! what is the point in this thread?? |
basicly they are saying that there are many that instead of getting to know someone first rush in to a relationship with a turkish guy, girl and then end up getting hurt . and most of these lot do see it happen every day because of all the translations they do for others .
i am not saying all relationships end badly cause i have seen many people that are still together and very happy but it takes alot of work , trust ect in a relationship to make it work especialy if they are in turkey ect and you are where you are 
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:37 pm |
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Quoting Serdar07: Quoting AEnigma III: Quoting Serdar07: Well give me some time to collect some good stories here in TC then I can write a number of stories then posting them in both Englsiha and Turkish. Thanks for waiting |
Well, I don't think we will have to wait too long...there is certainly plenty of "material" in this website  |
But I am not quite good in Turkish, so I need applying a good translation for the text because I don't think translators here will be interested in translating 10 pages of a short story from English into Turkish ... |
can i get a copy but i am not paying too much for it  
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:38 pm |
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I still don't get why someone has started a post specifically about someone's serious problem. With other people making comments about being naive and foolish. What the heck!! All this girl has done has come on here to ask for translations to let the father of the baby know her true feelings about how scared she is about being pregnant. So why is there a thread of people insulting her?
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:39 pm |
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Quoting PamCoop: Could you please not do this to me? you think this is fun, to discuss my biggest and worst problem? This was a final stop for me.. an embarassing thing to ask for but still i had no choice, to try to get help from nice ppl. And now you start to pick on me - why? Did i do something to you guys? I have not been rude or bad in anyway. So my question to you is - what kind of live do you live? What kind of ppl picks on others when they are already layin down?? |
I think your story is used to talk about a more general, and unfortunately very common, 'problem' of the Turkish 'all inclusive' Tourist industry. 'All inclusive' these days, includes the strangest things.
It is a fact that there are loads of naive, irresponsible, young girls that post messages on this website, that think they have found the love of their lives during their holidays. There are exceptions to the story, and I know some of them, but the stories of disaster are many more, and for 'frequent' members of this website, who read the everyday-messages of these relationships, the question 'How can you ever let this happen and not see the truth' becomes more and more both fascinating and irritating.
I dont think they meant to attack you in personal (and if they did, that would be very rude and needless, I rest my case) but just 'used your name' as an example of so many stories we heard.
But you should know that when you openly post such a personal message, people will wonder about it and comment on it. That is the dynamic of a lively website. And ofcourse people ask themselves if you are one of the naive girls or that you are not to blame yourself.
I wish you strength in a tough situation and hope for the best. But I for one think that people have to take responsibility for their actions too. Its up to you to see what you do with what you have done yourself to end up in this situation
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:41 pm |
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Quoting PamCoop: Could you please not do this to me? you think this is fun, to discuss my biggest and worst problem? This was a final stop for me.. an embarassing thing to ask for but still i had no choice, to try to get help from nice ppl. And now you start to pick on me - why? Did i do something to you guys? I have not been rude or bad in anyway. So my question to you is - what kind of live do you live? What kind of ppl picks on others when they are already layin down?? |
If you expose yourself, there are risks of being judged...
You are still a naive, PamCoop...
grow up.
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:42 pm |
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Pam & xkirstyx, i totally agree with you. I think this is horrible. I`ve read all the rude comments and i am shocked. No matter how many times you`ve seen this happen, or how tired you are of it - you treat people with respect. People here are rude to this girl and they make fun of her.. I DON`T GET THE POINT!!
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:45 pm |
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Quoting xkirstyx: I still don't get why someone has started a post specifically about someone's serious problem. With other people making comments about being naive and foolish. What the heck!! All this girl has done has come on here to ask for translations to let the father of the baby know her true feelings about how scared she is about being pregnant. So why is there a thread of people insulting her? |
i have tried to explain the perpose of why i think the tread was started ,but i think deli_kizin may have explained alittle better ,
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:48 pm |
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Quoting portokal: Quoting PamCoop: Could you please not do this to me? you think this is fun, to discuss my biggest and worst problem? This was a final stop for me.. an embarassing thing to ask for but still i had no choice, to try to get help from nice ppl. And now you start to pick on me - why? Did i do something to you guys? I have not been rude or bad in anyway. So my question to you is - what kind of live do you live? What kind of ppl picks on others when they are already layin down?? |
If you expose yourself, there are risks of being judged...
You are still a naive, PamCoop...
grow up. |
GROW UP??? What does she need to grow up about?? She got prenant and she's trying to figure out how the father is feeling. This could happen to an old intellignet woman, would you tell her to grow up then? You say she needs to grow up because she does not want a thread started of inuslts about her problem on the internet, looks to me like YOU ARE THE ONE WHO NEEDS GROW UP! It's so rude. Just because someone asks for help with translation on here , that gives nobody the right to isnult her and put her down. What happened to love, tolerance and peace?
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15 Sep 2007 Sat 07:52 pm |
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Quoting maria/mesut: Pam & xkirstyx, i totally agree with you. I think this is horrible. I`ve read all the rude comments and i am shocked. No matter how many times you`ve seen this happen, or how tired you are of it - you treat people with respect. People here are rude to this girl and they make fun of her.. I DON`T GET THE POINT!! |
i agree with deli_kizin. She made very good point of the real issue here, responsability, which, i would add, implies maturity. Nobody's rude. I completely sympathize with Pam, and her tough situation. But, the most important thing is to see the solution to this. Noone, at least some of us are not disrespectful. Pam should take the good out of this posts, since she really needs it right now.
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