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What Pam Coo's case means to you Turkish serious friends??
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17 Sep 2007 Mon 03:01 am |
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i have a friend..she's not turkish..her father rejected either her and her mum when her mother was pregnant..
as her mum says it was not easy to reaise a child alone but "destiny" her mother says and adds "what mature us in life is our mistakes"..
now my friend is one of the most powerful human i know..and she has a great relationship with her mum..by the way her mum also had great other realionships..eee lifes going on...
i hope pam and her baby's destiny can be similar..
good luck...
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17 Sep 2007 Mon 03:19 am |
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Quoting maria/mesut: Quoting xkirstyx: I'm still confused...because she got pregnant in a situation that no-one wants to be in , and can see how upset she is, why are people just pointing out the negatives rather than trying to help. Of course, she realizes what she's done. Why not try to be nice rather than just point out that it's not a goos situation to be in? Are people actually feeling better for just telling this girl who is having such a hard time that she's made a mistake? And the people who sent her those rude negatvie private messages should be ashamed. Something I have seen happen a lot on this site, is people are very eager to judge, critisize etc. then say they are just helping. May be your intention, but maybe we should think about how it's coming across. Also, some people spend a lot of time on here posting and sending private messages. I think a lot of the people who agree with some comments are unaware of the private messages that are being sent in private too. But I have seen several girls receive unnecessary rude private messages. I just think a thread specifically about this situation was pretty vulgar. |
Very well said!! |
ditto
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17 Sep 2007 Mon 03:27 am |
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just one question... if you are really that sensitive... why on earth you still keep posting under this thread...
huh...
yeap i am the rude and harsh one, with wishing her being powerful by her own feet! and telling her not to run after that idiot who rejects what he has done...
whatever...
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17 Sep 2007 Mon 08:42 am |
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Quoting turquoise:
i saw many foreign girls hurt by those stupids and complaining about them but i wanna ask that how come u can be fool that much and believe and trust a guy that you dont know well and you cant even talk to him with no translation. if you can that means to me you want an adventure.if you dont want an adventure please be careful and make sure about the guys and make sure you are safe,dont be fool and make sure your not doing any mistake,at least see if he still loves you after you go back to your country. |
Quoting geniuda:
Sorry to say, but many girls (not all) join this site after (for whatever the circumstances) they had fallen for someone or after they have already made a mistake. Unfortunately, (and I speak for myself) for many of us, when we were new members of this site, we didn’t know where to start from, maybe many new members do not know there is a section called “Search in TC†to find out if someone else has asked for the same translation as theirs, again, this could possibly minimize the number “I love yousâ€â€I miss yous†translations so translators who kindly take their time would not get bored.
Regards  |
2 nice posts!!
Again ... which sort of help? Is it mere translation that you can provide? Or some will write a pitition to the government saying there are some men like a thief hiding in the internet messengers or near the airport? I like to be of help but not in the passive way. It's true this thread may not have of help to those hurted deeply but maybe of use for those who are in the mid way or just starting their adventure through the back streets!
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17 Sep 2007 Mon 04:10 pm |
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Quoting turquoise: this really sad, im not happy to tell you that but most turkish guys are like that,when it comes to a foreign girl most of them will think only about money or meat cuz,those kind of people already see the girls as a meat. so they like to play with foreign girls cuz its easier to have sex with them, i hear u ask why, cuz they grow up with no having sex and turkish girls prefer saving their virginity because our culture (even though there are many girls that not virgin they wont be in a relationship or sleep with those guys)and the guys im talking about never will get married with a girl not virgin,but when it comes to them they like to play with girls,yeah this sad and big ignorance..its so easy to say 'i love you' and easy to think you are in love with anyone but you all know it takes time...
i saw many foreign girls hurt by those stupids and complaining about them but i wanna ask that how come u can be fool that much and believe and trust a guy that you dont know well and you cant even talk to him with no translation. if you can that means to me you want an adventure.if you dont want an adventure please be careful and make sure about the guys and make sure you are safe,dont be fool and make sure your not doing any mistake,at least see if he still loves you after you go back to your country. |
Perfect! (not just your English Turq but the comments too)
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17 Sep 2007 Mon 06:23 pm |
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Quoting turquoise: this really sad, im not happy to tell you that but most turkish guys are like that,when it comes to a foreign girl most of them will think only about money or meat cuz,those kind of people already see the girls as a meat. so they like to play with foreign girls cuz its easier to have sex with them, i hear u ask why, cuz they grow up with no having sex and turkish girls prefer saving their virginity because our culture (even though there are many girls that not virgin they wont be in a relationship or sleep with those guys)and the guys im talking about never will get married with a girl not virgin,but when it comes to them they like to play with girls,yeah this sad and big ignorance..its so easy to say 'i love you' and easy to think you are in love with anyone but you all know it takes time...
i saw many foreign girls hurt by those stupids and complaining about them but i wanna ask that how come u can be fool that much and believe and trust a guy that you dont know well and you cant even talk to him with no translation. if you can that means to me you want an adventure.if you dont want an adventure please be careful and make sure about the guys and make sure you are safe,dont be fool and make sure your not doing any mistake,at least see if he still loves you after you go back to your country. |
Great comment, Turquoise, especially about the 'wanting adventure' part!
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17 Sep 2007 Mon 10:58 pm |
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I think everyone has a fantasy about "love at first sight". It sort of has a mystical element to it.
...then there is was May West who when asked, "do you believe in love at first sight?" answered, "no, but it saves a lot of time"
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17 Sep 2007 Mon 11:09 pm |
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But then again, it was also Mae West who said:
"A dame that knows the ropes isn't likely to get tied up."
Quoting alameda:
...then there is was May West who when asked, "do you believe in love at first sight?" answered, "no, but it saves a lot of time" |
Yet i think this topic probably belongs to an another forum.
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18 Sep 2007 Tue 08:50 am |
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Ah Turquoise....if it were so easy to pick who you love! History and literature is full of mismatched tragic lovers. If we could be so rational in who and how we love, what kind of love would it be?
Quoting turquoise: this really sad, im not happy to tell you that but most turkish guys are like that,when it comes to a foreign girl most of them will think only about money or meat cuz,those kind of people already see the girls as a meat. so they like to play with foreign girls cuz its easier to have sex with them, i hear u ask why, cuz they grow up with no having sex and turkish girls prefer saving their virginity because our culture (even though there are many girls that not virgin they wont be in a relationship or sleep with those guys)and the guys im talking about never will get married with a girl not virgin,but when it comes to them they like to play with girls,yeah this sad and big ignorance..its so easy to say 'i love you' and easy to think you are in love with anyone but you all know it takes time...
i saw many foreign girls hurt by those stupids and complaining about them but i wanna ask that how come u can be fool that much and believe and trust a guy that you dont know well and you cant even talk to him with no translation. if you can that means to me you want an adventure.if you dont want an adventure please be careful and make sure about the guys and make sure you are safe,dont be fool and make sure your not doing any mistake,at least see if he still loves you after you go back to your country.
it came to pam in this post but shes not the only one having these problems.she has right to ask for help with translations and maybe she has nothing else to do and theres nothing shameful. people do mistakes thats life is a big experience.yeah she shouldve been careful but thats not what we should talk about actually. i have never talked about these things here once i did and i think i did a mistake.we should not judge people here if u dont want to help dont do anything else as well.
so pam, im sorry your having hard time and if u need help feel free to ask...
btw sorry for my bad english, i hope i could tell what i meant... |
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18 Sep 2007 Tue 03:23 pm |
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I didn't read all the posts, but i think i get the picture...maybe it was answered before, but i want to ask a single question: why are turkish guys always so willing to have an adventure....i include here even married men and fathers and especially with foreign girls.
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18 Sep 2007 Tue 03:38 pm |
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Quoting Lady_A:
I didn't read all the posts, but i think i get the picture...maybe it was answered before, but i want to ask a single question: why are turkish guys always so willing to have an adventure....i include here even married men and fathers and especially with foreign girls. |
Shouldn't the same be asked about foreign girls? 
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