I have the same experience as sarıkedi: in Turkey, ALL my friends willingly discuss the topics that are so difficult to talk about here. It were topics they often talk about and also were very willing to explain to me as a foreigner. I dont get why it is so hard to talk about TURKEY here.

I also dont understand why people keep talking about members leaving? People, this is a WEBSİTE, not a lifetimesentence! If you're bored, or start to have other stuff to do, you simply go! Its not like we are not getting any new members these days. The flood of new members is still like it used to be. People come people go.

If you want to go, go. If you want to stay, then JOİN.

Then I dont get your previous post

I dont know who deleted that message, but I believe it to be a right decision.

The cardigans - Erase and rewind

I feel as if 'neden' would be better than 'niçin'. Im not sure if I am right here, but I believe
- niçin to be: what for, with what purpose.
- neden to be: what from, what is the reason behind.

Not sure though