-memezlik  etmek 

When we want to impress upon a person that he must not fail to dosomething or, to put it another way, he must be sure to do something, we add - memezlik [-mamazlık ] to  the verb stem followed by etme, etmeyelim, etmeyin, etc..

 Verb stem + memezlik [mamazlık ] + etme.....

Sometimes the word " sakın " is placed before the sentence for an extra emphasis.

- Sakın gitmemezlik etme ! ----> Now be sure to go ! [ Don´t fail not to go ]

- Söyle , gelmemezlik etmesin ! ---> Tell him/her to be sure to come !

- Dersine çalışmamazlık etme !  ---> Make sure you study your lessons !

- Doktora gitmemezlik etmeyin ! ---> Make sure you [plural] do go to the doctor !

e [a] durmak 

This form is used when we want to indicate that an activity is to continue.This is preferred form when we want to tell a person to go on doing something.

Verb stem +  e [a]dur + person

git            + edur       +   un ---> you [plural] keep going

- Siz gidedurun ben birazdan gelirim.

  You keep going, I´ll follow you shortly.

- O oturadursun biz gideceğiz.

  Have him keep sitting, we are going.

- Sen yiyedur ben giyineceğim.

You keep on eating while I get dressed. [I´ll get dressed]

- Siz  kahvaltınızı yapadurun biz bekleriz.

You keep on eating breakfast while we wait. [we´ll wait for you]

1) Beni dinlemeseydin paranı  kaybederdin.

If you didn´t listen to me, you would lose your money.

2) Yorgunken  konuşma[yın]

Don´t talk when you are tired.

3) O çocukken  çok  güzeldi.

When she was a child ,she was very pretty.

4) Aslı büyüdükçe  güzelleşiyor.

Aslı gets prettier as she grows up.

Your interpretation makes more sense gokuyum. " let there be dirt and filt on you rather than having a broken heart ". You are right.

  ol + duk + personel suffix

  k ---> ğ

  ol  + duğ + u, un, um, umuz, unuz, ları

 Kim olduğun + u   biliyorum.

 I know [that] who are you.

That extra " u "  is required by the verb "bilmek". 

Seni kırdığım için özür dilerim. Kötü bir gün geçiriyordum ve bu yüzden aptalca şeyler söyledim. Umarım beni affedersin.

You got it almost right if there was not important spelling error in the critical point [ seperating conjunction -de [da] ] 

Because , it is attached to the word it confused you. It looked like a case ending [locative], but in fact it is a conjunction and functions as something like " as long as ". So, lets seperate that "de " by not touching your initial translation.

"Kalbin kırılmasın da üzerinde kir pasak olsun."

"As long as your heart is not broken, let there be dirt and filth on it "

In other words, the poet says, its better having  dirt and filt on your heart than having it broken.

Complete missing parts in the sentences below.

1) Beni dinle........  paran.  kaybet.....

If you didn´t listen to me, you would lose your money.

2) Yorgun...  konuş.....

Don´t talk when you are tired.

3) O çocuk...  çok  güzel..

When she was a child ,she was very pretty.

4) Aslı büyü.....  güzelleş....

Aslı gets prettier as she grows up.

 Five forms of the question "WHERE" [NERE]

NERE : This is a singular root of the question "Where" and it is rarely used without ending.

Burası  nere ? ---> Where is here ? 

* Although it should be "neresi", you may hear people using it without ending in questions like that.

NEREDE : " In , on, at , where ? ". It asks the locality of the subject, and it is always used together with a verb " to be ", and the verbs thhat give a "da, de" ending to the object "

Postane nerede ? ---> [At] Where  is the post office ?

NEREYE : "to towards where ?" It asks to where the action of  the subject is directed, and is used together with the verbs that give an "-a,-e " ending to the object. [dative verbs]

- Nereye gidiyorsun ? ---> [To] Where are you going ?

NEREYİ :  "Where". It is always with the verbs that give an "i,ı " endings to the object. [Accusative verbs]

- Nereyi aldın ? ---> Where did you buy ?

- Burayı aldım. ---> I bought here.

NEREDEN : " From where ?",  " Out of where  ? " . It asks from where, or out of where the action is taking place. 

- Nereden gideceğiz ? ---> From where we will go ?

NERESİ :   "Where ? " , meaning what place ?, which country ?, city, room etc..  It points out a part of a whole.

- Almanya´nın neresinde yaşıyorsun ? ---> In what part of Germany you are living ?

demek 

In some cases the adverbial form of the verb "demek" ---> "diye"[by saying/thinking ] precedes these verbs :

- Ne yapıyorsunuz ? diye sordu "--> He/She asked [saying] what are you doing?

- " Hayır hiç görmedim" diye cevap verdi. ---> He/She answered [saying] "No, I haven´t seen at all "

- Öğretmen öğrencileri, "sessiz olun !" diye uyardı. ----> The teacher warned the students [by saying] " be quite ! "

- Anne, bakıcıya "Çocuklara iyi bak " diye tembih etti. ---> The mother admonished the carer [by saying ] " look after the kids well "

- Öğretmen, " Ödevlerinizi unutmayın"  diye ekledi.  ---> The teacher added [by saying] "Don´t forget your homeworks ".

- "Mektuplarımı açmayın " diye size kaç defa rica ettim.---> How many times I pleaded with you [by saying] " Do not to open my letters ".

- " Acaba başına bir iş mi geldi " diye merak ettim.  ---> I worried about you [by thinking ] if something happened to you.