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08 Feb 2006 Wed 04:52 pm |
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Quoting sophie: But as time passes by, living apart gives so much pain that in the end it kills the relationship. (Not the love you feel for eachother though)... |
For me this is a bit different. I think i stayed quite tough, living apart for 2 years and last time we saw eachother more than 8 months ago.
For me it's not the distance that kills, but the fact we never know when we will see eachother for the next time.
I feel that I've been living a love-flow the past 2 weeks, now I know i will see him within 10 nights in a lonely bed. It even makes the loneliness romantic.
If you have a good plan and good ideas for future, i believe you can live apart for many years.
When I walked away to Türkiye without informign my parents, i met a man in the train on my way to the airport. He saw me cry, offerred me a glass of water and asked what was up. I told, and he really cleared my mind: he was married to a woman in Kenia, who wasn't allowed to live in Holland. They haven't seen eachother for 3 years now and still had to wait 3 months before they might see eachother again. but because they were confident about their future-plans (both moving to South-Africa), they could overcome the distance.
You can't overcome a distance if you don't have a good plan though.
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Can u please send it to me once you have time? Thanks 
She's really famous in here, she just brought our her new album. It's a bit different styled from the others, but still with that raw voice. Some sensitive songs too tho..