In Turkiye about 30% of the male population is maganda. It takes me 30 seconds to tell you if a Turkish man is a maganda or not. Unfortunately for foreign people this might take a few weeks or months.
I personally wouldn’t talk to any maganda the way I talk to friends. I'm a Turkish male but I feel uncomfortable among magandas. If I have to, I talk to them in a formal way. This will be a limited speech you do with a taxi driver, dolmuş driver or in a shop.
The Turkish woman might talk to the magandas as well. But it will be very formal and short.
Unfortunately since foreign woman don’t understand what a maganda is they become very close to these magandas in a short time which means asking for trouble and nothing else.
Do you know what a maganda is? Let me try to explain. A maganda can be educated or not, can be grown in a big city or in a small village. Between educated folks there will be less maganda and among uneducated folks there will be more. Among people who listen to arabesk music there will be more maganda and who don’t listen there will be less. All magandas have a desire to football but most football fans are not magandas. Also most magandas will enjoy their free times with male friends and will go to "kahve", a place where they drink lots of tea, smoke like hell and play card games. But not all regulars of these places will be maganda. Some of them will be ordinary people who are retired or others who have nothing better to do.
For a maganda there are two kind women. Either women are ethical and get married before having sex or they are not ethical and have sex will all the man they come across to. Unfortunately magandas will think that all female tourist from European countries are unethical.
A maganda is proud to have a hairy chest, they very much enjoy rude speech among male friends and they especially enjoy to talk about their experiences with unethical woman. For them this is something to be proud of. Actually for a maganda it is impossible to speak politely among male friends so this an important way to distinguish them.
A typical maganda will listen loud arabesk music when driving a car and will spit on roads.
Again around the same population of this magandas there is a female population who share the same interests with them. These women wouldnt mind spending time with magandas. But almost all educated Turkish women can recognise a maganda or a "maganda like" almost immediately. They certainly would prefer to stay away.
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