I found an explanation:

In the old times after paying their debts men would feel like they were wealthy enough to have another wife. So their wives would break one of the two spoons at the home to make them remember that they are still poor.So men called their wives as spoon enemies.

 Yes it can be

Kaşık düşmanı

Enemy of the spoon

Two interpretations:

1)She is the enemy of the spoon because she uses it non-stop.That means she eats a lot.

2)She is the enemy of the spoon because she hates using it. Maybe she prefers eating with a ladle. So that means she eats a lot too.

I guess second one is more logical.

 Poetic like the original. I liked it. One of the characteristic of our idioms is being them poetic. Maybe you can find a poetic connection between "karı" and "darı" in English.This would be better.

Do you have sexist idioms like these?

 Thank you. I appreciate your effort.

 Thank you for your expianation. Have a nice day.

Here are the worst ones:

“Kadın erkeğin şeytanıdır”,

Woman is the devil of man.


“Ağustostan sonra ekilen darıdan, kocasından sonra kalkan karıdan hayır gelmez”,

It doesnt come good  from the millet which was sowed after August and from the woman who wakes up after his husband.


“Oğlan babadan öğrenir sofra dizmeyi, kız anadan öğrenir sokak gezmeyi”,

Son learns from his father how to set a table, daughter learns form her mother how to loiter in street 

Do you use "talk to" or "talk with"? I asked this before and the answer was "talk to".