Probably you think you show your lowliness. But you should remember that there are many questions like this. If you say this is a stupidity, it sounds like you say these learners are stupid. For that reason, just try to be normal please.

I guess he forgot to add "I told that..." part. it means "anlattım". Now he says he edited

I think it is more like this:

Ahmet and Ayşe are talking;
Ahmet- Hey Ayşe, you are fat!
Ayşe gets surprised, shocked and surely it was not good to hear it. So she says:
"Aşk olsun, ben şişman mıyım?"



Yea I accept that it was an extreme example. Let's say it is like "shame on you" but it is more "you broke/are breaking my heart by saying this". It may not a "shame" actually, depending on the stress.

I don't agree with the calling "present tense". It always make people misunderstood this tense.